I know why I don’t cum; I’m not getting my gspot hit well enough, I dry up during the middle of it, and I’m too much in my head/not 100% comfortable.

However him on the other hand, he always blamed it on the condoms until I got tired of hearing it and got us both std tested (just to be safe) and I got on BC. Now he’s saying he can’t cum because he already jacked off today.

After we decided to give up, I asked him why he REALLY can’t cum and he said it’s because he’s one of those people that has to have a strong emotional bond. This made me feel like shit... then he said “I’m not saying we don’t have a strong bond, but I just like it to be a little stronger”.... we say I love you to each other and have been dating a little over 3 months. He even said it first and he started crying after he told me, from being overwhelmed with emotion. He assured me it’s not because of me and that I’m doing everything right. What can I do to help him feel better?