Soooo I’ve always been into the idea of being in a d/s relationship but never mentioned it to my boyfriend who I’m soon to make two years with. When we met I was just a little over 18 now I’m going on 20 this month and we have a month old baby. I was never that expressive in bed in fear of sounding weird and killing the moment. In my head it’s a different story though. After having a baby I’ve found this new sense of confidence and sensuality that I wish would’ve emerged a long time ago. I’ve been setting things aside and I plan to tell him when he gets home tonight from work and I’m so nervous about things going sour with him because he’ll think I’m weird or something. Any ideas or tips on how to not be so nervous about this. I’ll keep updating the post to let you all know how it goes.🙏🏾

Soooo Update: It went incredibly well and he’s actually open to it! I’m so freaking happy! 😩 he’s excited to go through with this and I feel silly about keeping it from him for so long! Wish me luck ladies 💖