SO not very affectionate

I just wish he would roll over and kiss my neck, or rub my back, play with my hair spontaneously, touch me sexually, or just kiss me all over like I do to him but he just doesnt initiate anything or really like touching me. I even wish he'd just randomly hold my hand or kiss me without me doing it first.

If I dont, he would never do anything.

And when I ask him to do any of this he will rub my back so lazy for 3 seconds and start to complain. Or scratch my head for a minute and call it a day...

I know life isn't like the movies but damn why is he so unromantic...