Hey ladies I assume this is a safe place for me to talk about this. This summer we got a new cook in the kitchen at work and we would always says hi to each other and have small talk. Since I hostess and he cooks we don’t get to see each other often. We then both went on a sunset cruise for a staff party and got to know each other a bit more. Then the last week of July I asked if he was working the night I was going to the county fair with some friends and he said he was working but he’d definitely go if he wasn’t, which was kind of reassuring. The next week I asked him if he wanted to grab coffee on Monday morning (both of our day off) and he said sure! So the next day at work (Sunday night) I asked if he was still up for coffee Monday morning since I didn’t have any way to contact him. He said he had plans with his dad come up and asked me if we could reschedule for the next Monday. I said sure and we planned on that. Then two days later I saw him again at work and asked him if he had Facebook or a way I could contact him so we could better plan getting coffee. He said “do you just want my number?” So I said sure and handed him my phone so he could put it in. The next night I texted him to make plans but he didn’t respond until the morning (last Thursday) but we agreed on a day, time, and place. Sunday night comes again and I checked to make sure he was still on for Monday morning and he said yes! Then when I got home I got a text from him around 12:30 am saying he was exhausted from work and wanted to sleep in then get things done around the house and that he couldn’t meet for coffee. He didn’t ask to reschedule this time. All I responded with was “ok that’s fine” and he never texted back. Today at work I had to talk to him to see if we needed more eggs and he seemed to be in a good mood but one of my coworkers said he seemed grumpy today. I guess I’m just at a loss right now because I thought he wanted to get coffee especially since he asked to reschedule the first time but now I’m not so sure since he cancelled a second time and never asked to reschedule. I haven’t texted him since my “ok that’s fine” text or really talked to him. I’m kinda hurt and frustrated with him but at the same time I’m trying to be understanding. My dad says maybe he’s nervous or scared because he likes me but I don’t think he’d cancel and not ask to reschedule if he did. I just need some advise on how to deal with this and if I should make the next move or wait and see if he does. After all he is the one who offered me his number when I asked if there was a way to stay in touch with him, he wouldn’t give me his phone number if he wasn’t interested would he? *sigh* help me out please 😪