Am I being harsh or too needy?

I might come off as annoying to you, but it’s really unfair & frustrating coming home being left alone. I get that you want and have a social life, that’s fine. But you have a whole family now and you’re a father. I can’t be the one doing all these things when you’re able to be around, but choose to be elsewhere. This is suppose to be a partnership, I shouldn’t have to feel alone all the time or even keep asking you for things this.