So my boyfriend and I were having sex about a week ago and I couldve sworn he said another womans name. (Sounded like stacy and that's not my name) now about a week later I notice blood when I wipe after peekng and theres this weird pressure almost in my labia area. I'm going to get tested today but would anyone else be really upset by their man saying another womans name? I've gotten mixed responses from friends saying maybe IRS harmless or maybe hes cheating. Other things to note:

1. He constantly mentions how he wouldnt cheat on someone (almost excessively)

2. When I try to bring up if hes had sex with anyone else he says I know he would never do that (almost like hes deflecting the question)

3. He'll be really distant for a day or two and then all of a sudden wanna be overly affectionate.

4. Hes ridciously moody and snaps but when I get upset he just loves on me and says he doesnt want me to be upset he doesnt actually apologize.

Am I just being paranoid or does anyone else think this behavior is shady? Definitely getting tested though.