My S.O. was planning on going back to school, but now I feel like he is going to just give it up because it's going to be harder than he thought. Even after me and his grandparents have helped him get to the point where he is accepted and got a grant that will pay for basically everything except his gas to get to class. He took the placement test for math and english courses and because he failed it he is second guessing himself. He was already nervous about wasting his time because he has a felony record from over a decade ago.

To be real, this isn't the first time he has quit things because they are harder than he thought or because he doesn't want to deal with the work. He has been through several jobs in the last 5 years we have been together and I have been left to take care of all of the bills while he pays for only his child support and his hobbies. It's very stressful on me and now we will be having a baby November 7th and it's like he doesn't want to change anything. I have told him if he doesn't want to work he can be a stay at home dad, but he doesn't want to do that either.

I'm just not sure if it is worth sticking around for anymore. Every time I think something will change for us it doesn't. Not to mention I haven't had any needs met for at least a year or two. I lost count. The only positive thing I can say is that I know he's not cheating on me.