okay so i’m pretty confident about my body and skills in bed and all that stuff but i am SO insecure about my vagina because it isn’t all neatly tucked in and perfect looking like it’s ‘supposed’ to be. i know that it looking ‘perfect’ like that isn’t actually what is normal, but having labia that stick out a lot makes me SO DAMN UNCOMFORTABLE.

i’ve had one boyfriend before and he always made me feel good about my body and never said anything was ‘weird’ or anything like that, this insecurity is completely from my own head. but i’ve got a new boyfriend now and he is a virgin so i’m scared that he’ll think i’m weird or find it unattractive, especially because what he knows vaginas to look like probably comes from porn where they’re all perfect looking. so that’s making me scared to do stuff with him but i REALLY want to

any advice??