Long story short, my boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year now.

We used to have sex all the time, and he’s ate me out only twice since we’ve been together! (Odd?) it seems like nowadays I have to beg him to have sex, we live together and only do it maybe once a week. I get that we both work opposite shifts (he’s third shift, I’m first and second) but even for the few hours a day we’re together he just doesn’t have a high sex drive and will just have sex until he cums and it’s over. I want to bring the spark back, I want him to want to please me like he used to. How do I bring the spark back!?

Also how tf do I get him to eat me out again! He told me he just has to be in a special mood to do it, and that’s all he’ll say every time I ask and I just don’t understand.