I've been with my husband for 17 years and we have 4 kids together. He's a great dad and provider. I love him but I have a hard time saying I'm in love with him. I try to love him! He drinks every night when he gets home from work and all his days off. We talked about it and he says he'll stop or cut back but never does. If I get upset about it he gets mad and says I'm causing an issue. I don't know what to do! Do I stay and just keep my mouth shut or do tell him to get effed and leave with my kids? He's not a mean drunk just an annoying one. It's so unattractive to me.