we want a baby so bad that we offered to adopt my cousins newborn because she said she couldn't handle it without the dad around.. she already has 2 other children. She unfortunately said no she didn't want to do that so now she has been sitting around saying she's exhausted. I told her if she would let my husband and I adopt the baby that we are more than willing to get up at night, buy diapers and formula, get throwed up on, everything a baby needs we would handle it with no help from her... We just want a baby :( we have a son who is 4 he would love to have a sibling but we can't have anymore children.