If your boyfriend who had been separated for 3 years and now is divorced but (who.Are still friends) because she had an affair would you be okay with all her things being in the home ... occasionally she needs to grab clothes ect( she is never home) we met FYI and still pays some of her bills and shares a bank account she always stays at her boyfriend place but they are admit to move in together) would. You be okay with all of this until she and her boyfriend find a place to move? Remember they are still friends and share a child. Also, we share a phone bill but I have to pay my half because he's usually broke.