Okay I don’t even know where to start but I’m going to try my boyfriend and me have been together for almost 2 years now we have a 4 month old I go to send myself pictures of our child off of his phone I’m scrolling and see my name so I snooped ik not the greatest but I did well he’s asked our land lord to take my name of the lease for some reason I get upset and see more messages with my name between his mom and him so again I look this isn’t the first time I have seen him text his mom over me well he is telling her all kinds of stuff just going to town talking shit how I never do anything how I don’t use my brain how I don’t have a job and I’m wasting money (I’ve been looking for a job had interviews everything still nothing) well I sold my own stuff and bought stuff we needed before winter and asked my grandma for help well he talked shit about that and they committed on how my grandma doesn’t have money so when we were fighting I told him it wasn’t his business on her finances so that pissed him off I’ve tried sitting down and talking to him and told him how I felt asked him what I could do to be a better house wife I’m not going to lie the house isn’t always the cleanest but I try some days I don’t have energy and I’m to tired I wake up with our child at night I have him 95% of the time he claims I don’t do anything to his mother..i am so sick of this and like I said I’ve tried to explain how I felt to him and he just sits and stares and then he’ll tell me like I have a problem with coming to people when I have a problem he’s saying all the same stuff he has in previous fights and I don’t want to leave because I love him I’ve offered to go to counseling or him telling what I need to fix ect and still nothing I don’t want to lose my child because he will fight me for custody he has money and so does his family I can’t afford to go to court I don’t want to lose my baby what else do I do I want us to work but if we don’t I’ll lose everything he’s military so of course he will get custody or I think and he screenshot our text even if it’s me pouring my heart out what do I do