Say your fiancé has a past lover who he still speaks to that your were initially iffy about. You’ve had several arguments about this person with your partner because you felt that the ex disrespected your relationship when you and your man first started dating. Since then he’s set boundaries with this person, you’ve talked to them yourself, and you can clearly tell that their just friends now. BUT your fiancé deletes all text messages and calls to this person. You’ve voiced that although you trust them, it’s unsettling to know that their hiding things. He says he understands, but still does it. What gives??? Should I just leave this topic alone and let him to continue “trying” to hide things, or should we have another conversation about it?