So my other half admitted to me that she been emotional abusing me and controlling me for the past 6 months.

I said that she needs to get help professional help

She is as we speak.

We haven’t been together as it’s mentally done me in as you could imagine, iv seek help off my own back to get back to me I guess

But still been seeing each other a few times

And we we are together everything goes back to normally in a nice way.

Anyways she said about moving up to me as she’s 2 hours away we been long distance for 11 months now.

I did ask her to do it few months back but she wasn’t ready but now she is.

But I can’t help but freak abit thinking is it the right thing. She said things will be better as we both struggle with the long distance and not seeing each other.

I do have 2 children ages are 10 and 2

My 10 year old isn’t to happy about it she worries about me getting hurt and being controlled again she happy we are not together

What’s your option onit ?

I love her so much and I can’t just leave her iv tired but I always go back but I don’t if that’s the controlling side of things or is it because I can’t live with out her ?

Thanks