My brother is gay and that is something my very religious family has never accepted. I’m getting married in 3 months and it’s going to be a pretty big wedding with all of our extended family, friends and a lot of church friends. Well my brother has been dating his boyfriend for 3 years now and they are really serious, they even live together. I love my brother and his boyfriend. My mom told me that I need to tell my brother not to bring his boyfriend because it would be embarrassing and disrespectful in front of our church friends. I told her I would absolutely not be telling him that and that his boyfriend is more than welcome at my wedding. I told her i would rather have him there than our church friends because he feels like family. I also told her he would be in our wedding photos. My mom cried and told me I am disrespectful. She said she is humiliated. I told her she can’t respect my decision about my own wedding that my fiancé and I are paying for and planning that she is not welcome at my wedding. She hasn’t spoken to me in days. Was I wrong?