If you wanted to have a baby in a time line would you have one just because you wanted one?

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I just turned 32, I would like to have a second child before I am 35, no I am not single my SO wants to wait, for what idk but I would like to have one with him,  I feel like my time is running out, and idk why I feel this way. would you wait for his terms, or just have one because that’s what you wanted, and I want with him. Selfish? Would you wait or just have one?

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Both parties need to be in agreeance. I’d wait.

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I would wait and definitely wouldn’t get pregnant on purpose without your SO’s okay. Had my first at 31, second at 35 and third at 38. Try not to stress too much about your age.

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You still have 3 years before you said you wanted a child so why not wait 6 months and then revisit the topic. Don't you want your man to actually be happy about having a child?

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Make sure to be on the same page. 
I see he’s waiting to buy a house, does he see marriage too? How long have you been together? Either way, don’t rush, needs to be a joint decision

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Two consenting parties.

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Time lines sometimes work. I wanted my 3 by the time I was 30.  I am 32 almost 33 and currently pregnant with my fourth and last baby. My husband wanted to wait and not really wanted one more baby. Here I am 11 weeks pregnant. Just have a real good talk with your husband

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I would. That doesn’t mean trap him into having a baby but you could just be like hey this is something I really want right now, I’m gonna look into a sperm donor since you aren’t ready 🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe he’ll change his mind, maybe not. But the risks do go up once you get past age 35 so I understand why you want one now.

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How do I see what the polls are btw 😂

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What are his reasons to wait?

If you wanted to have a baby in a time line would you have one just because you wanted one?

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