I need some help, my husband and I are 4 weeks today with our first and his family lives here while mine is out of town...we will probably tell my family this weekend and people close to us but I don’t want the world knowing at least until a little further along....the problem is that my husband and I are known to go out and have a few drinks with friends pretty often, we have plans tonight with some of his family and I don’t want to cancel them but I can’t come up with a good excuse for not having a drink! It would be very unlike me in most situations to turn it down, we thought about letting the waiter in on it and if I ask for a drink just bring me a water in a drink glass but any advice would be great!