Please no rude comments this person is near and dear to my heart....Have any of you ladies had to deal with a VERY CLOSE relative or spouse being in jail?? Even if it's for a day, a week, a year or how ever long. If so how did you cope with it??? I'm pregnant and all I can do is stress and cry but people keep telling me "it's gonna be alright, everything is fine, it'll all work itself out" YOU DON'T KNOW HOW I FEEL SO DON'T TELL ME IT'S GONNA BE ALRIGHT WHEN I'M FREAKING THE FUCK OUT!!!!! I've NEVER had to deal with this before and it's hurting me to my soul because all I wanna do is help but I know I can't because there's nothing I can do but wait for court date, after court date, after court date!!!