I am 5 weeks right now and I have a good job and rent my own place. My boyfriend is unemployed and lives with me and has a lot of trust issues. Hes constantly starting fights and accusing me of cheating and lying and says some really nasty things about things that "probably happen to me when I'm at work", I am a scientist for the construction industry. If I cry he says I'm guilty. Hes threatened to come to my job to make sure everyone "knows who he is" and that I'm pregnant.

I've asked him to leave several times and says he won't leave me and his baby is in me and that I have to evict him. Hes even physically prevented me from leaving. Later he will say hes sorry for treating me badly and being mean and takes his stress and insecurity out on me.

I'm afraid of this viscous cycle, its really worse than it sounds and he might be bipolar. Im also afraid of being a single mom. I'm 28 and just affording my place. My mom died this year and my sister lives out of state. I feel like it will be a struggle to afford day care and I'm also afraid the dad will haunt me for the rest of my life. He has a custody battle with his ex right now where she has a restraining order and he has supervised visits.

I'm not sure what to do. I want to have my baby and planned my pregnancy but now that I'm pregnant things are going to shit and I feel so isolated.