This guy said he’d pull out but didn’t?

Question

So I’ve been seeing this guy I work with for a few months. He’s always pulled out in time and wears condoms as well. But last night he came in me and the condom broke. He seemed apologetic and said he couldn’t control it. He helped me buy plan b but that’s never happened to me before. Is it true sometimes guys can’t help but not pull out?

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I mean he probably just assumed that the condom would have him covered. Pulling out while using condoms is not usually necessary, although it’s a good way to up your protection it’s a little overkill... except in situations like this which cannot be predicted. I wouldn’t beat too badly on him for this, it doesn’t sound like he acted like an ass about it. Sounds like a genuine accident 
Is there something preventing you from getting on regular BC? Maybe that would be good to have just as peace of mind in case something like this happens again. I’m not sure where you are in your cycle but just remember that Plan B is significantly less effective if you have already ovulated, as it will not abort an egg that has already been fertilized. It may make implantation harder but it’s not guaranteed. It also wreaks havoc on your body, it makes some women sick, sometimes it’ll make your period start immediately or sometimes it can delay it for a couple of weeks. The rush of hormones isn’t good for your system so you want to use it as infrequently as possible. 
Good luck!

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You need to protect yourself and be on birth control. I think its irresponsible to not take matters into your own hands. Secondly, a guy knows when he is going to cum. For him to say he "couldn't" stop is dumb and I would find someone else who respects you more to have sex with. One "oops" can change the rest of your entire life and the life of the little human you bring into this world if you choose to keep it. Just my opnion.

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If ur randomly seeing a guy for sex from work why trust him to do 100% what you say? You have fault too you should have been on birth control too, because accidents can happen and this is not even your husband bf fiance or anything 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

This guy said he’d pull out but didn’t?

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