Can i get some advice


So recently we were told that we need to do <a href="">IVF</a> and me and my fiance we're trying to figure out how we're going to pay for <a href="">IVF</a> and we're <a href="">IVF</a> fits into our life and marriage we recently found out that my dads insurance covers $40,000 for <a href="">IVF</a> and $10,000 for meds this is where the problem comes in I'm supposed to be getting married in 2 months and when we get married my that insurance gets cuts off and anybody who's doing <a href="">IVF</a> knows that the insurance is literally amazing to cover that much and so I had an idea of having a fake wedding and not really getting married and having the entire ceremony since everything's pretty much paid for but my mom is very upset by it it is not okay with the idea she doesnt understand the amount of money and effort an emotional toll <a href="">IVF</a> takes from somebody and she just expects us to have a full cycle of <a href="">IVF</a> done by October 5th also might I add I'm very hurt by my mother because she has not took the time to read up on <a href="">IVF</a> or actually like look into what I'm having to go through she keeps making smart comments and I feel she's being so insensitive and i just don't know what to do i wanna marry my fiance like we planned but i don't wanna loose the insurance help any suggestions?