Can u change your sexuality?

Question

I’m pretty sure I’m a lesbian. But I don’t want to be. (I’m 25)

Answer

I think you need to unpack why you don’t want to be a lesbian. Your sexuality can change over time (sexuality is fluid like that) but you can’t force it.

Answer

Why don’t you wanna be lesbian? We lit as hell lmao don’t try to change yourself for anyone because you’re going to regret all the love you could’ve had but missed out on because it’s probably been shoved down your throat being lesbian is wrong, but so is lying and stealing and judging and pledging allegiance to the fucking flag for gods sakes everyone chooses to live their life differently so why are you putting on a show for someone else at the risk of your own feelings, health, and happiness ? It just don’t make sense baby

Answer

I don’t believe you can change your sexuality, but you can choose not to act on it and hope it makes you happy. One caution. A good friend of mine got married, moved for her husband, had a baby...and then her husband decided he couldn’t live a lie anymore and left them for a man he’d been seeing. It was really really destructive and heartbreaking for all involved. As a gay woman, I would say just be really clear in your head about what you want in life and be sure you want it with a man and not a woman. Breaking someone else is really hard to live with.

Answer

Nope.  Sexuality is permanently etched into who you are.  Your understanding of it may change over time, often people realize they are more fluid than they previously thought, but you cannot actually *change* your sexuality. 
I’m sorry you are scared.  But I want you to think about something for a second, with me.  I want you to picture all of the lesbians.  In the world, or maybe just in your hometown.  Imagine how many there probably are- not much, compared to everyone else, right? 
Now, along with the lesbians, picture all the gay men.  Now add bisexuals.  Pansexuals.  Ace and Demi people.  Imagine all the transgender people in your town- even if you can’t imagine there’s more than five.  You’ve got a small smattering of people.  Now imagine everyone that’s Jewish, and add them to the group.  That’s Hindu.  That’s atheist.  That’s pagan.  Muslim.  Buddhist.  Satanist.  Pastafarian.  You’ve got a good little group going now, right?
Imagine every black person in your town.  Imagine every Asian, every hispanic, every Native American.  Imagine every immigrant.  Imagine every polygamous family.  Every interracial couple.  Imagine everyone who’s non-nuerotypical- everyone with autism, everyone with ADHD.  Imagine every person with a disability.  
Imagine every ginger.  
The group of people you are imagining, made entirely of minorities, makes up the majority of the people around you.  Most people are a minority.  You are not alone.  You are one of us.  And we’ve got you.  
Even the gingers.

Answer

Why change who u are tho

Answer

Yes? I’m not saying you’ll be happy but yes you can

Answer

Rude

Answer

Well it can change sexuality is fluid ! I been bi most my life until recently i am definitely lesbian now. I can admire nice looking guy but have no attraction emotionally or physically to men at all anymore.

Answer

Growing up in a Christian household I struggled with a lot of that same feeling. I’m out and proud now, but there r still days where I beg god to take these feelings away bc it just makes life harder. There r days where I’ll look at a guy that’s objectively attractive and try to convince myself I may actually be straight, but as soon as I imagine anything intimate with the man, I’m disgusted by the idea. I am a lesbian. Period, end of story. I love myself for all that I am, but I’d be lying if I said I didn’t wish I were straight every once in a while. The thing is, everyone has struggles in life. Yours and mine just happens to be that we’re gay. If someone didn’t want to be black anymore bc of discrimination, would they change their skin color, or would they fight to be treated equally? You deserve the same respect as everyone else. It may be hard to life your truth out in the open, but I promise you it’s a hell of a lot harder to live a lie.

Answer

not on the inside but you can pretend

Can u change your sexuality?

Let's Glow!

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey