My Fiancée is Depressed (I want to help)! *ChristianPost*

Firstly,

If you are a believer of Christ welcome and if not also welcome. I would appreciate both sides of advice as it’ll help me advance into helping my Fiancée in his dark times.

Anyway,

I’m very worried for my Fiancée. He is super depressed and when I talked to him he told me he wasn’t happy with his life and with himself. We got engaged about a month ago and been together for two years. We plan to get married, we just have a super strong connection both spiritually, physically, and mentally.

I pray for him but I can see his change in mood. He is pressing towards the lord immensely and even going to church and I pray for him as much as I can when my illness doesn’t get in the way of our lives.

I feel like I am stressing him the most - with no job due to my illness and no disability. He has to withhold us and we are both only 24 living in New York under my parents roof it’s so expensive.

I feel stuck myself and it’s super hard to get through a shitty muck when I’m super sick right now due to Lupus and He is super depressed, it’s almost making me depressed because I care so much.

I just want advice on this. What else can I do to let him know I am here and how can I help myself?

He’s focusing spiritually individually and together with me. And I think I need that too - I am just so caring for him that I don’t want him to feel like he’s walking alone!

He’s becoming more open then usual now though, which I’m very happy about i can see God working through Him. I just don’t want to miss anything else. To clarify: He is unhappy living in someone else’s home because that’s all we’ve done. He wants to be financially stable, to give me and his family and our future family all he can give and it’s honestly just a typical “You’re in your mid 20s crisis,” but when it’s happening at the same time it makes me want to explode!

Any advice?