Having trouble conceiving our second. First baby is 18 months now and we didn’t try with him as it happened right away after I stopped birth control. Been actively trying for 4 months now but weren’t careful or tracking the 3 months prior to that. Feeling down and wish I had started ttc #2 sooner but figured it wouldn’t take long based on last time. Seems like everyone i know is having a 2nd now too which makes it even more upsetting. Originally did BD every day but this past month moved to every other day and tried preseed one day during ovulation but I’m conflicted about using it. Honestly I don’t even know what is the right way to approach it this next month. My husband has testosterone on the lower side but we haven’t done testing on his sperm yet so I’m not sure if that is an issue plus doctors keep saying “well you already had 1 so probably isn’t a big issue!”. Been using OPK and BBT and I do seem to be ovulating each month with cycle varying a few days in length. I’m 31 so I know they will make me wait a year before seeing a specialist but just feeling so frustrated. Feel like I’ll never get pregnant again ☹️ Anyone else in a similar boat? Any other tips?