Totally not a van mom, but

So i have a 2 year old, trying for a second and also 4 dogs. I used to have a lifted tahoe. Was everything i ever wanted. Drove it for 4 years after i had my son, the money into the truck all the time was hard after we started to fix some work with the truck we ended up finding out that the frame was rotted so we had to get rid of it. Now im driving a trailblazer but its too small. Both my husband and i are very tall and my son well hes tall for his age so his feet are always right on the back of the seat and with 4 dogs its impossible to go out anywhere as a family. Im a stay at home mom so my husband pays for everything. He wants to buy himself a pick up but i think we need a family suv and i loved my tahoe so i want a suburban. He talked about a Chrysler minivan but i cant seem to get on the same page. I know Its something he can afford but i just can't, but then i feel like im being a bitch for saying no. Im used to driving something big and i felt safe in i guess its just a matter of i guess picking something i might actually like. Which minivan is your go too? We are looking at 2009-2010 minivans.