My “grandma” says

Nigeria • I go by all pronouns don’t disrespect that I’m a lesbian

My “grandma” says that I can’t dress like a boy bc I’m not a boy. She said that I need to dress like a girl. What she fails to realize is I’m gender fluid and most days I feel like a boys she already disowns me for being lesbian saying I need to get straight I don’t know what I like. Well she’s wrong my entire family is wrong about me. I’m not a failure and I never will be. Shoot I’m 14 and more mature then my own sister them. Like common. I love who I am regardless of what others think. I love my style. Only if they loved me for who I am. Her and everyone else saying I need to change who I am made me cry. I seriously can’t even that ugly. Hell ik I’m ugly but damn.