My husband and i have 2 under 2 we planned for it. And we had a outline of what our game plan was then. Little did we know God had other plans

Baby number 2 was diagnosed with a type of hearing loss that requires alot of appointments and classes in preparation for choclear implants. After many conversations WE BOTH decided it would be best if I didn't return to work. We have Atleast 2 appointments a week PLUS classes and squeezing in house work, laundry and grocery shopping Our appointments are about an hour away. My husband works long hours obviously. We are both exhausted most days. I mean who wouldn't be

They made their smartass comments about

A. not visiting enough

B.me not working

I hate taking my kids over there because of what was said. And it's super inconsiderate knowing all we have going on. ALSO THEY NEVER VISIT US we live like 10 minutes away and they don't make the effort.

Plus i have to be behind my oldest because I get dirty looks because he gets into everything. Then the times we do go over MIL starts balling literally balling to make my husband feel bad. Like its emotional blackmail, but ok.

Also i over heard her telling my husband to have a separate bank account. Ive never done anything to this woman. She has issues Sharing MY HUSBAND.

Idk i needed to vent about this bullshit anyone else dealing with this bullshit??

Lemme know in the comments b4 i lose my shit one of these days

Update. Husband knows he always asks about it we go over as least as possible just to shut her ass up.

There's times when i don't go and she still complains no win situation

I figure the old bat is gonna bite the dust soon so i keep my composure. Maybe that bugs her honestly. Lmao I'm going to hell lmaooo