My long-distance boyfriend of two years is deciding that we should only be friends, because he thinks I am not smart or driven because I do not go to a nice university like he does and because he thinks I don’t put effort into getting ready for college. I was lazy, but after it became apparent to me that school was a much bigger deal to him than our relationship i realized i needed to step up so i began to send in essays for research, apply for scholarships, etc. and become more involved. but instead of waiting for the results to come he just said he’s done. He told me that school is more important than love and that he hasn’t felt like he wanted to touch me or cute talk me since December, and it’s true, he has been treating me as a friend since December. But he always told me he was just stressed about school work so i gave him his space. But we still got along and he loves my personality. And because of that he said he will give me two chances to be his wife, if i either transfer to a top 25 college (which i can’t afford) or go to medical school(which is also something i’m not sure i want to pursue). But he says that’s the only ultimatum he will make for me. and Regardless of how he loves me as a person he decided to choose that he’d rather be alone for the rest of his life than be with me over status. I would never do this to him if he was even an employee at mcdonald’s, my love for him is unconditional. and to see him now not even sad or missing me makes me wonder if he ever appreciated my love in the first place because it doesn’t seem to bother to him. I understand his standards but even if i transfer or do become a doctor, i don’t think i will be able to see him the same because he would only want me because of my status instead of only loving me for who i am. He barely made time for me, he never showed me love, or anything while we were together so for him to withdraw all of this over a career makes me wonder if he’s wrong or if i am.