Don’t make sex a TTC thing, don’t put that label into it.

He’s probably like most guys who roll their eyes because they are not really getting anything out of TTC besides “mandatory” sex to make a baby, almost like a job. They don’t like to do it because they are forced to. Make sense?

I’m not saying you’re doing that, I’m just saying when men get a label of any kind they seem to just sweep it under the rug and not say anything.

Make it fun, make it spontaneous, send him some flirty texts, be mysterious, being back that before TTC spark, buy some sexy lingerie, toys, try some new fun positions, go out of your comfort zone. Become more confident, I know a lot of women who have low self-esteem seem to have bedroom issues because they feel like they’re not good enough, and so they perform poorly not really meaning to(not saying that’s you!) But become more confident, a confident women is a sexy women in mens eyes.

If you’re into oral, try some ice cubes, pop rocks, I mean just go all in, you’re married and whatever you’re comfortable with or maybe want to try but a little hesitant just go for it!

I use to be a prude, didn’t want to do this or that, once I did, holy hot damn out sex life became amazing. Not just the physical aspect but mental and emotional as well.

I’m literally an open book, I sell sex shit all the time to even the most innocent looking women, so if you’re not comfortable out in the open my messages are open and I don’t mind giving tips and tricks to help improve your sex life. Just thought I’d throw that out there.

if he does have low testosterone than he’s going to need that extra boost to become interested and stay interested. It’s not his fault, his a hormone imbalance, so try some prenatals for me, vitamin D, get him to work out if he doesn’t, drink more water, get more sun, and if all fails a doctor can help get him balanced.

Not pregnant because of this