Hey guys... can we just stop mom shaming?

Some of us have “easy” babies.

Some of us have “difficult” babies.

The fact is: we all have babies! Not everything is easy 100% of the time, and I sure hope nothing is difficult 100% of the time!

Some of us have “better” sex lives than before.

Others of us have pain and aren’t yet ready for sex.

The truth is... we’re all getting upset about things that aren’t in our control!! None of us can control how our babies act and none of us are in control about how sex feels!

Let’s stop blaming each other and pointing fingers. This place has been a place of Positivity for those struggling. We’ve been happy for mommas who are thriving and we’ve been supportive of those who are struggling.

Can we get back to that?

Sincerely,

A FTM with no actual friends who is tired of being shamed for having a happy baby by the group of people she turns to for advice.