At work I’ve (F18) got a bit of a group of friends, maybe 10 of us in the group chat and that go out together outside of work, but only three of them are relevant and I’ll use their initials to identify them. So there’s J (M20), R (M23) and S (F23).

So J and R have been best friends for years outside of work and lived till about February when J moved into student accomodation and R moved in with other work friends. Put quite simply, me and J started sleeping together in January but J didn’t want anyone to know about it, not even R. So I agreed to keep it a secret but I was pretty confused as to why he didn’t want to tell his best friend he was fucking me. And I told him from the start that I don’t care who knows, we’re all adults, id just like to know who he tells. He keeps insisting he doesn’t want anyone to know though.

S and R start dating in about march or April and broke up last month cause S moved to New Zealand for a while, but now S is back in Melbourne were all still really good friends, no hard feelings between S and R.

Im at work the other day and im on break, sitting with S and I haven’t really seen her properly since she got back so I asked about R and what happened, blah blah blah just catching up, then we start talking about sex and she’s telling me about a conversation she had with R while fucking. R asked if he can spit on her, she says no, then he says “but Rey lets J spit on her”

I was absolutely shook. I had no idea she knew. I went bright red. Not only did she know about me and J but she knew about all the weird kinky things we get up to. I was a little mad at first, not because she knew, like I said, we’re all adults but I would have liked a little notice before she brought it up in conversation.

Looking back on it, I find it quite funny