Am I the only one?

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Is it weird that I’m not feeling the same in my 2 almost 3 year relationship? He’s cheated on me many, many times and I forgave him every time. He’s never physically cheated but he has messaged other women saying how pretty they are and that he’s single. We live together, I love him I really do, but in my eyes it feels like he’s less affectionate. Our sex life is literally the best, but he doesn’t complement me anymore. I know I don’t get ready like I used to, should I spice it up? Like put on something sexy and put on makeup? Or is it just the lack of trust I have towards him? I’ve been feeling super insecure because I notice all the beautiful women he’s talked to and complemented. Sometimes it sucks being a woman because we have to look a certain way and do certain things. Has anyone felt this way too? I know I need to talk to him, but I myself don’t know how to explain it.

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Girl, you are trying to do way to much for a little disrespectful POS who obviously doesn’t care about you or your relationship. Leave and find someone else who loves and respects you. Your current one doesn’t deserve anything!!!!!

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You should leave him, honestly he doesn’t love you if he emotionally cheats on you. Why forgive him over and over? Once is enough and he’s totally taking advantage of you because he knows you will let him off. He is disrespectful towards you and knows he doesn’t need to show you affection because you will stay anyway.

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He’s not making you feel the best by his lack of affection, not to mention the talking to other women, saying he is single. I would just stop wasting my time if I were you. He’s made it clear what his intentions are with other girls. Don’t waste another second on trying to “spice things up”. He’s not worth your time at that point. Good luck, hun

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RUN

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I’m sure you’re not the only one that’s been in this situation. 
But why bother forgiving him? You love him, but he’s saying his single, so has no respect or love for you?

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A real man makes other women jealous of his woman, not his woman jealous of other women. Trash him 👍🏻

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Throw him away. He’s emotionally cheating on you and setting himself up to physical chest on you. No thanks 🗑

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You can’t overcompensate when someone pretended like you didn’t exist telling people he was single. You say this happened many many times, your words, not mine. I would have lost all feeling for him right then and there and ran because no one deserves that

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I've been cheated on many times when I was a teenager. It never stopped, so I broke it off (hardest thing I've done..we were together 3 yrs at this point) and cut off all communication with him. I didn't talk to him at all for almost 2 yrs. He didn't know where I lived anymore (I was 18 so moved out of my parents house), my cell was changed..all that. 
I finally talked to him after those 2 years and he was so heartbroken still. His ass deserved it. However, we slowly started talking and got into a relationship again. At this point, he knew if he did it again he would lose me. I've been with him 17 years now and he is committed and trustworthy. He turned from a horny, cheating teen to a great man. 
However, my story is rare. He only stopped because I left him. Your guy won't stop. Youll have continuous heartbreak and it will kill your self esteem, as well. Don't do this to yourself. You are so much better, and deserve so much better. None of this is your fault. It doesn't matter how dolled up you get, he will still cheat. And the "great" sex doesn't matter, either. Great sex doesn't make relationship good. 
Do better, honey.

Am I the only one?

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