Anyone else?

I have 27 days left before my due date but im in denial 🙈 it doesn’t feel real that I’m about to have my second little boy. I’ve got everything ready I’m just not ready for the traumatising birth I just feel blank. Is this normal with your second? My son is a busy 2 and a half year old so I’m not really having much time to nest or get everything ready as the cats are so fluffy and get into everything. While I’m mentioning it is there anything I can do about that too? One goes outside and ones an indoor cat she hasn’t been neutered so I can’t exactly let her out and my house is small so there’s no chance of keeping them in a restricted area