after 7 months of no communication, he wants to be a dad

well, after 7 months of absolutely no communication, my son's father is trying to reach out to me to see his son...

this isnt the first time he's done this to my son and im positive it wont be the last..

he's only 18 months old and only seen his father a handful of times.

can someone please give me their own personal experience?

did you let the dad come in and out of the child's life??

did you not?

we do have a court order, and i have proof of him not being a dad if i have to go to the court for custody reasons.