Is it supposed to hurt this badly??

Question

So me and my bf have been together 6 months and decided that we’re both ready to give sex a go but boy oh boy does it hurt.He hasn’t put it in because I tell him to stop but is it supposed to hurt really bad? And is there anyway for it to not hurt? Because it just feels like a fuckton of  pressure! Any advice?

Answer

Make sure to do foreplay, slow fingering etc.. make sure you are relaxed and in the mood because arousal helps! and you need LUBE LUBE LUBE!!

Answer

you need lubrication and try more foreplay!!

Answer

It should never be painful. Be sure to have a lot of foreplay — making out, touching, slowly stripping, grinding, even nipple and clitoral stimulation. This will encourage your body to produce its natural lubricant. Use lube (which is easily available and quite inexpensive) and lots of saliva. Start with one finger, then continue to three, maybe even four. If it hurts, stop. Slow down, re-lubricate, and try again, slower.
Then advance to penetration; go extremely slowly. I don’t care how impatient he is or how much you just want to get into it. Lubricate. Tip first, slowly. Pause and let yourself stretch out. Continue until he is all the way inside. Let yourself get used to it. Lubricate again if you need to. Go slowly.
Depending upon how big he is and how tight you are, it might require practice for it become comfortable. Don’t continue with sex if what’s happening isn’t pleasureful, or you don’t want to do it anymore.

Is it supposed to hurt this badly??

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