Confession

All the time but not because he won’t have sex with me (he’s always down) but sometimes I just like get it done real quick and go to sleep lol.

No. I think it's disrespectful. Would you like it if he did it in bed next to you? My husband would never have sex with me either so I either waited till he went to work, or I'd go to bed before him or I'd do it in the shower/bath in the morning.

All the time actually.

Yes lol, even if we had sex that night. I’ve tried kissing him and putting my hands all over him, but at times he’s too sleepy to wake up and do it again. He does not feel bothered if I masturbate, in fact he understands. Sometimes it helps me fall asleep better.

I have with my boyfriend before but only because we’d already had sex and he finished but I’m never able to. So I ask him if it’s okay first. Not that he’s gonna stop me from touching my own body or anything but I just feel like it’s more respectful. And he can just sleep away 😂😂

Have you guys talked about it? Your situation isn’t one I can personally relate to, but I feel like if you want some physical intimacy you could ask him about it or make a move (as long as you’re both comfortable). I mean, if both of you are more comfortable doing things like that separately, no problem. But if you actually want it then... Also, it might be better if you masturbated which he wasn’t present haha, as it could make things awkward if he wakes up, and plus it doesnt sound very comfortable

No. I wait until he goes to work. We have sex 4-6 times a week.