I just need to rant about something.

So my husband and I got married in February.

Immediately after we got married, my cousin got married to a girl he barely knew. My cousin and his family did not show up to my wedding but expected us to all go to his. We couldnt. My husband works in the oilfield. We didnt even take a honeymoon.

So flash forward to april. We find out we are having a baby. We waited to announce until the end of May at 10 weeks. We announce, Everyone is so happy for us.

I get a PM. My cousins wife is pregnant TOO. Ok congrats no big deal. I'm genuinely happy for him. But heres the kicker.

She's not due until the end of February/March.

I'm due in December.

My baby shower is November 2nd.

They have decided to have their baby shower in November as well. 🙃🙃🙃

My family is pissed off. My husband is out of his mind. My aunt who is throwing the shower is LIVID.

I just feel so defeated. Don't get me wrong, I'm going to be happy no matter what. This is my baby. My baby shower but it genuinely feels like every step I take in my life, I'm always fighting to just have one moment for myself.

*Insert pregnant hormones here*

Edit: a lot of people have been asking about if she said why she is doing it in November. From what I have heard, the answer is no. They weren't even going to mention it to me or my immediate family. We found out through my cousins grandmother. My mom said she something about the weather. Which I could understand if we had terrible winters BUT the weather doesnt get that bad where we live that having a winter shower would be out of reach.

Is black poo 💩 normal during second trimester??