So how many Husbands/Dad's come home from work and help out with the baby?

Is it normal for them not to? My husband took her for 1 minute and I ran upstairs to put things away quickly...and of course he says he has things to do.

I understand he is tired, he works all day but so do I in a different way.

I wish he would be more interested in her.

Please no bashing, just advice etc.