So Idk of what I’m feeling is right but, so basically me and this guy have been talking for about 3 months of non stop taking and texting, we became really comfortable with each other and I told him that I hadn’t done anything with a guy before from kissing to having sex, and for the first time in forever I thought I met an actual guy who didn’t care just about sex. He was so sweet about it and made it really comfortable to talk to about it, he said that it was nothing to be embarrassed about . We finally went out on a date ( btw I had to go to him because he refused to come out my way because “ his car would get scratched” because I’m from the west and his from the city) he took us to North Sydney and to a lookout and we made out for a bit. When the date was over I asked him what the chances were of us going out again and he said 100% most definitely, we made out a bit more then went home. It’s been 3 weeks since we went out and he hasn’t been messaging me much at first I was like his just really busy don’t bombard him with messages so I didn’t, then we had the occasional conversation and what not, and now he just hasn’t messaged me. Tbh I kinda feel a bit used because things went down hill with us after our date, but I’m also upset because I opened up to this guy about certain things. I mean if his going to ghost me now I would rather him be a man and tell me his not interested or whatever it is rather then me trying to figure out if I did something wrong. Like why say certain things and then just not message me???? Idk if I should message him.