Need to spice things up..

Alright LADIES! Me and my boyfriend have been together over 5 years, all throughout college and have been sexually active the full time. But as every long relationship does, fucking has become a routine and we are both trying to spice it up. We recently got a new vibrator and we are both interested in slowly going into like BDSM, specifically blind folds and touch and tease play.

However, LET ME GET REAL WITH YALL 😩 we don’t know how to do anything and have been so vanilla these last few years with an exception of choking and shit like that.

I need suggestions to spice it up in the bedrooms and some tips for a lil vanilla girl trying to get into some Red Room kinda shit😩🔥