I feel like I have to beg my husband to spend any time with me. He could go all week without seeing me and it would not affect him at all. Every time I tell him about something that bothers me, he never changes. He continues to do the same shit and honestly I’m just so tired of it.

I feel so pushed to the side.

I just had his baby and I can’t even get him to take me out on dates or just cuddle with me.. just for a little while. the only time it seems like he’ll give me any attention is when he wants to have sex and I’m so desperate for some type of contact I just let it happen but pretty much as soon as it’s over he is onto something else.

I’m so insecure about my postpartum body, I rarely ever go out because of the baby, I feel so unloved and thrown to the side.

He can see I’m sad and upset with the way he is treating me and he just ignores it. It almost seems to irritate him.

I don’t know what to do, but I can’t feel like this anymore. I want our marriage to work but how is that suppose to happen if I’m the only one making any effort?