What is the dumbest, meanest or most unhelpful thing someone has said to you in your grieving process??

Here's mine so far:

"I've never been through that...I know it's because GOD knows I couldn't handle it, I've always known first and foremost in my life that being a mother was my biggest priority and everything else comes secondary."

Um are you SERIOUS RIGHT NOW?? Me too bitch. ME TOO.