So I love my boyfriend a lot and we have been through so much stuff together. I never felt like my love for him has gone away n I would always feel butterfly’s to see him . We wer together for 6 years then broke up for about a year. Then got back together so this would be our first year bck together.

Lately I just dnt feel like I have those butterfly feelings anymore. I just wana know is that normal? I know tht shouldn’t last forever but it scares me and makes me question if I’m falling out of love for him ?

I know eventually those feelings fade . But I don’t want to feel like I’m bored with him and I don’t want him to feel that of me.

I’ve talked to him about it and he tells me

Why Cnt this just be us. Why Cnt we just be happy.

This is rly long and prob doesn’t make much sense but I hope someone gets it n can give me advice

Thank you!

Ps I also thing I’m ready for more out of our relTionship. I want kids , a house , and maybe that’s why I feel so blah because we don’t have those things yet. I feel like we’re still in high school and have been together for a long time and we have nothing to show for it. How do I tell him this? And I want a baby but I also don’t want to have a baby just to make things exciting again. I want a baby to know it’s the right thing out of love not to safe our relationship.

Plz help