Am i the only one going thru this? 😕

Question

My husband almost never initiates sex with me. I’m always the one who has to ask. Is it me? I feel bad for asking because his work schedule is so hectic but it just seems like he’s always tired. He’s not cheating or anything, he’s an amazing man who is faithful. But when it comes to sex its almost never a thing anymore 😕. He’s in the US Military btw.

Answer

Currently going through the same.  Starting to realize maybe it’s just the gentleman in him and not that he doesn’t want sex. I’ve told him how I felt about him not initiating it and he just says “well babe I just don’t want to make you feel like you have too”. It comes and goes in waves, keep your head up!

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I am struggling with this too. I try to be sexy and I make it clear that I want him. He says "tomorrow night " well tonight is tomorrow night. I can play with his penis (it gets hard) but he will fall asleep. I literally don't even know what gets him in the mood. And I feel unattractive and defective. I tried the whole wait until he initiates it thing once. 12 days. It took him 12 days to even recognize that I was depressed from feeling unwanted sexually. It literally didn't bother him that we were not being intimate. 😣😭

Am i the only one going thru this? 😕

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