My trans boyfriend and I are sexually active. We have a situation where he is really really submissive and I’m dominant. So of course, being the top, I do most of the work. Sometimes I do wish that he could do something for me, though. The problem is, touching me gives him dysphoria. Of course, I’m not going to ask him to cross his boundaries just for me, but it gets frustrating sometimes.

Also, I don’t feel pleasure much at all. It takes a lot for me to reach orgasm, and my bc gets weary when i try to touch myself while we’re in the act just because it takes so long. It’s. FRUSTRATING.

Any insight into either of these things would be greatly appreciated!