Is it fair?

So, I dont take plan B or anything. My boyfriend and I use condoms. He's asked me if I planned on going on birth control. I told him no because it messes up your period patterns and other reasons. But I also feel bad for making him have to use a condom when I could be on birth control. He said he wont make me get on it out of respect for my wishes and he will continue to use condoms. But he's typically like this, he's very soft and never puts himself first. He's always doing what other people want. And honestly I feel like the only reason he's still using condoms is so he doesn't anger me. And I feel like this isnt fair. But I also don't want to get on birth control. Im torn. Should I get on birth control?