Parents paying for weddings

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My mom said to me this morning that she felt it was selfish for people to have children and not have the savings to help pay for a wedding for them.

A little back story. My parents are divorced and remarried. On my mom and step dads side there are 4 kids total. The last is about the get married. My parents have paid for all our weddings. Out of the 4 weddings they have paid for only one of the fiancés families have offered to help pay.

It has actually caused some major issues in our family dynamic. My husbands family helped pay for our wedding so his parents are welcomed by my parents. The other parents that haven’t are honestly treated worse. Not invited over and referred to as losers.

So I’m curious. Do you expect to pay for your kids wedding? Did your or will your parents help you? Would you be offended if your fiancés parents didn’t or couldn’t help?

(These are my moms thoughts not mine, need to be clear with y’all 😂)