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Is it bad if your boyfriend goes to a strip club😭 he already went but I don’t know if I should break up with him or not!
*he went without telling me* i found out the next day!

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I wouldn't care

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Nah I don’t see a problem

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It depends, I would be irritated if he didn't tell me. Idk I don't really have a problem with it but I feel like if youre spending money on a stripper over me we have a problem. I think it's personally a waste

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Everybody has their own different levels of comfort when it comes to strip clubs in a relationship. I personally wouldn't have a problem with it, but I think it's a bit disrespectful that he didnt tell you and you found out the next day.

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I think it’s a tad disrespectful personally

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I wouldn’t be too happy if my SO did that but if y’all haven’t talked about it I wouldn’t just break up with him. Tell him how you feel and that it makes you uncomfortable moving forward

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Everyone is different. I would be mad that he didn’t invite me but that’s because I have curiosity and would like to experience this together lol. Not so much for pleasure but it’s just something we have never done

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No because he is a guy you can't contol what he sees

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I see your view point but I would be chill gecause I don’t identify such social occasions as cheating, but a fun experience. Next time bring me along lol

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I would not be ok with that but if you have never talked about that being an issue for you then he wouldn't know your be so upset so no I wouldn't break up with him but have a serious discussion about communication(him not asking you ahead of time) and your boundaries going forward. If he's like ill go to a strip club whether you like it or not then dump him if he isn't able to respect your feelings/boundaries.

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