Boyfriend and I verbally agreed to go have sex. He asked me to be on top and I asked him to at least finger me first so I can get more in the mood to do that. He then decided a few kisses was enough before trying to get me on top but I wasn’t in the mood yet so I asked again if he can actually do some foreplay. He asked if we can at least kiss while I’m on top. I agreed and he tried to finger me while I was top but he was just hooking his arm around and doing it from the back . It hurt and I made him stop that. He asked if we could continue trying to have sex. I said fine as long as he’s on top. He put it in and it immediately hurt so I made him stop again, went to the bathroom and noticed he actually scraped the outside of the opening due to trying to finger me from that weird angle 🤦🏼‍♀️ all I wanted was some simple vanilla foreplay